8/04/2013

How to talk to anyone (1)

Writer: Leil Lowndes
這本書提出92種情境, 提醒讀者注意如何和別人搭訕或是講出對的話。最重要的, 作者教我們佈局, 讓自己的呈現和信心加分, 進而達成目的。

PART 1: You only have 10 seconds to show you are a Somebody
PART 2: How to know what to say after "Hi"
PART 3: How to talk like a VIP
PART 4: How to be an insider in any crowd- what are they all talking about?
PART 5: How to sound like you and they are just alike!
PART 6: How to differentiate - praise from the folly of flattery
PART 7: How to direct dial their hearts
PART 8: The politician's six point party checklist
PART 9: How to break the most treacherous glass ceiling of all ( play as a tiger)

以第八部分的檢核點,頗有用:
1,看誰會出席,別成為冒失鬼或異類。
2,如何令人難忘的進場?
3,如何見到想見的人?
4,如何吸引人譲他們對你有興趣和記憶。
5,讓別人覺得他是明星,他感覺你對他的重視。
6,如何給他們驚喜-你竟然記得他的事。
7,用你的眼神去表達你的友善和認同。
8,後鑟如何持續關係?